We’re adopting! Two words that I thought I would say about 6
– 8 years from now. I knew I wanted to adopt children when I was young. I knew
I wanted to care and love for children that were not biologically mine, but
after having 2-4 of my own biological children. Wow, one biological child
later, we are plunging in to adoption.
My husband, Stefan, and I are on the same page at the same
time with adoption. This doesn’t always happen when the adoption topic is
brought up. We’d rather put our money towards adoption than fertility
treatments. After 22 months of trying to naturally conceive we are moving on.
Don’t get me wrong, we prayed, asked others to pray, prayed some more, our two
and a half year old daughter prayed for a sister or brother, we prayed with our
daughter, and then prayed some more. Feeling extremely blessed to have our
daughter is overwhelming, considering the results of all the testing I did to
find out why there were difficulties this time around. (I’ll be nicknaming our
daughter Gracie for her protection, so if you know me and you want to leave a
comment, please do not use her real name. Thank you for respecting that.)
We considered adoption long before I thought there was an
issue with fertility. Growing our family has been on my heart since Gracie was
born. Our friends around us were families of three and so we were on track.
Then some had two, then three. I felt left behind, defeated, confused, and
saddened that our family wasn’t growing like the others. I sought God for an explanation
“Why?”, I heard nothing. We kept trying. I again called on God, “Is adding to
our family not part of your plan?” No answer. We kept trying. “God, can you
please take away the pain and heartache each month that passes and my womb is
empty?” God finally answered. “I will guard your heart.” That was good enough
for me because it was good enough for God. Months passed, my heart softened,
joy overcame my sadness. Our journey begins……
Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world. James 1:27
Praise God for your honesty! We need more of that around here. :) Blessings to you & your family on this journey!
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